When I was growing up we had a whole range of animals, some were
pets, some weren't . They would come and go from our house. From guinea pigs,
ducks and chickens - to cats, dogs and budgies, we had them all at one time or
another. My dad was big on breeding animals and while some were for
consumption, he also encouraged me to have pets and breed and sell my own
birds.
We had so many pets. Probably the one that lasted the
longest was my pet budgie, Sparkie. He came straight out of our aviary and I
lovingly tamed him and taught him to talk. He said 50+ words, perched on the
end of your plate and drank water out of your cup. I was heartbroken when he died
at about 8 years old. Budgies don’t live all that long, but he was such an
amazing pet all the same.
So what’s got me thinking about animals teaching children?
Now that Mr.T is on the move, our Kelpie, Jazz, has become a bit of a lesser
fan. Mr.T enjoys crawling up to the sliding door, getting on his knees and
banging the glass in excitement. The reaction he receives from Jazz is not a
welcome one and she immediately goes over to ‘protect’ her food bowl. So now
that the sun is out Mr.T and I have been enjoying our lunch outside and I’ve been patiently and calmly introducing dog to child, child to dog and it seems
to be working as Jazz learns that these are her boundaries. Mr. T , for the
time being is just excited about dropping food on the ground for Jazz to lap up
in an instant.
I want Mr.T to grow up with many, many animals in his life.
I want him to be gentle with a bird, playful with a dog and cuddly with a cat.
Animals teach children SO much. For one, they teach them compassion. Animals
teach them to consider something else’s needs and wants for a change. Does the
dog want to be cuddled right now or is it looking for food? Perhaps it’s not
feeling well? Pets help children to become less egotistical!
Pets teach children responsibility. If taught and encouraged
by their parents, a child will take on responsibilities of looking after a pet
with diligence and enthusiasm. When I was younger my Dad would ask me to look
after the budgies that weren’t feeding or flying properly. I would take them
into my room, keep them warm and hand feed them until they were strong enough
to hold their own. It was a beautiful thing.
They teach children about grieving and death. It’s awful.
But it’s also a part of life, and some, not all children will experience death
for the first time through a family pet. It can be a great opportunity to teach
little ones about dealing with death, remembering the good times and how to
move on after such a life-changing event.
And last but not least animals teach children to communicate
in ways they just won’t get from another human being. The body language of
animals is an amazing thing and teaches children to be in tune with a language other
than the verbal “Don’t touch that!” “Let’s play” etc.
I can’t wait for Mr.T to experience all that is Mother
Nature. I can’t wait to take him to a wildlife park where he can feed native
animals or to the zoo where he can marvel at Creation. But most of all, I can’t
wait for him to experience the joy that is owning a pet throughout his life.
How do your little ones interact with your pets? Do you have
your own sentimental pet story to share? I would love to hear it!
Thanks for another Flog Yo Blog Friday Link-up With Some Grace
You are absolutely right - pets have a lot to teach children. But what I learnt after getting a dog from the pound was that they require a LOT of work. With small children, and working, and a yappy needy neurotic dog that lost it whenever we left the house (or arrived home again) I couldn't cope. So she went to live with my parents :) Perhaps when the little kids are older we can try again, but I think we might try a cat next.
ReplyDeleteYes they do require a lot of work. Particularly dogs as they need the space too. It's worth it when you're ready to take a pet on board for sure :-)
DeleteWe would love to have a dog for their twinlets but I think we'll wait a bit. At the moment our place is too small and I think we'll wait till the boys are a little older.
ReplyDeleteWe had a family dog, Samson. He was a faithful, loyal friend and was with us for about 17 years.
I didn't realise how much I loved him until he passed away. In fact, it's been about 5 years and I still can't talk about it. It's amazing the impact our furry friends have on us.
Aww Samson what a gorgeous name for a dog. 17 years is a good innings! Agreed. They became such a part of our lives and family. :-)
DeleteI almost fell off my seat when I read that, I had a Kelpie named Jazz and she looked very similar to yours!
ReplyDeleteOh how weird is that!
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